Give A Little Praise
It is so easy to tell other people how to do something and expect them to do it and stand back and point out everything they are doing wrong, but if the shoe is on the other foot and you are standing behind that same critical person while they are showing you believe me when under pressure they don’t do so good either.
What’s my point you may be asking. I love the expression, ” Never criticise until you’ve walked a mile in someone else’s shoes” and You’ll catch more flies with honey than vinegar.”
If you give the tiniest amount of praise instead of negativity you will definitly get more accomplished. Everyone likes to feel appreciated and worthy. We all have self doubt at times and all we need is a little kindness and an encouraging word to make us feel better.
Show someone something by example not by pointing them out and making them feel stupid and resentful. This might make you feel superior, but it doesn’t do much good for the other person. It’s too easy for us to pick someone else apart instead of looking at ourselves. I always try to live by the the golden rule “Do unto others as you would have done unto you.”
