Are You Happy Alone Or In A Relationship?
I have often said in the past that I was completely happy on my own and all by myself, but I realized I was simply lying to myself when I met Bill. I put up a wall because of all my relationship failures. It’s hard to mess up a relationship if you’re the only one in it and there really isn’t much satisfaction either being all alone. People need other people to share with and feel like they are a part of something bigger.
Bill was the best present ever given to me and I’m so glad I was smart enough at the time to realize it. He has enriched my life so much and I often worry that I don’t give back as much if not more than I receive. He does tell me that I make him feel important and that he feels appreciated, so that’s a good thing, but I know there are lots of things I could do better.
Bill and I are very different, he talks to everybody and I’m more reserved, the man doesn’t know the word stranger. Of course if someone talks to me I will converse with them, but I’m usually not the instigator of the conversation whereas Bill is, he can talk to anyone and he’s so funny. I have always told him that he is perfect for me and that he balances me and so he does.
The world is full of other people and we either decide to make friends with some of them so that our lives can be enhanced or we can choose to remain silent and aloof and stay in our own little world. I am so much happier because I opened that door and decided to include others and Bill in particular because my life has been enriched with his knowledge and personality.




