Most people question their existence and why they are here, what’s my purpose in life? Many people seem to find answers along the way that suit them and they appear to be satisfied, but others search all their lives and never seem to find any truth for their existence. Some people manage to become pure optimists and only see the good and beauty in any given situation.
I have actually known some people that give the impression that the harsh realities of life never touch them or at least they are capable of making it seem that way. Some people seem to glide through life on a cloud with not a care in the world and I have always wondered how and why. There seems to be an acceptance and faith that everything is as it should be.
There are many courses out there that teach just that, that this world is a learning ground and it’s not real, but it is real to us because we are experiencing it at this very second. There are many enlightened humans that walk among us that don’t judge or criticize and seem to know the secret and look beyond everything that the ego tells us is true in this reality.
At one stage in my life I thought they must be on the last leg of their journey and they had moved up to the last level of reentry into the real reality that they seek, but lately I have been having doubts about everything I have found true in my life and the way I view things. I have never blamed anyone other than myself for events that have taken place in my life and have always looked for that silver lining.
I have always tried to learn from the mistakes I have made and go to the next plateau. I realize that we all have our trials and tribulations here, but how we deal with them determines the people we become. I don’t want to be a bitter old woman with bad energy and a lot of regrets, I want to be one of those people that appear to glide through life and accept each challenge as it comes and see only the beauty.
I had a friend who was so positive about everything. Even the bad things that were happening in his life, he would always see the bright side of it. He even went for a self-motivational course.
However, he had a disagreement with another friend & he did a complete 180. He cussed at the poor guy, called him all sorts of names… oh it was horrible. That pretty much changed how we think of him bcoz he’s the 1 who went for those self-help courses & yet resorted to cheap blows when the pressure got to him.
I think when it comes to the challenges in life, we should approach it in a realistic kinda way that works for us.